Category Archives: honesty

Felix in a 3D — Randomness #5

I created this blog as a very private and very personal way to get my racing thoughts out of my brain and into a space where they could exist unhindered. Over the years, I have come here to wallow in heartache, revel in … Continue reading

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"uncorrected" in retrospect

UNCORRECTED How many times can I be wrong? Only months ago, weeks even…perhaps days.  Hours? Lost in feelings for you so deep that I heard love songs in my head non-stop. You took my breath away. Etched your name across … Continue reading

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Figuring it out on my own…

There is really no one that I can talk to about this shit. I love my friends and although I seek their opinions on some things, I don’t look to them for advice when it comes to my personal life. … Continue reading

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Floaters & Splashers or "Get back in the boat, stupid!"

This journey of mine has revealed many things that I was not expecting.  Things about myself mostly, but also things about others that came as a surprise. The fact is, no matter how long you know someone, you really never … Continue reading

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Giving In

This weekend I was supposed to do something empowering and freeing. I had planned on attending a weekend of workshops for late-blooming lesbians who were married to men. It’s a yearly event. I wasn’t able to go last year, but … Continue reading

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Trusting and Moving

Life has not been sweet to me lately. I’m getting poked, pinched and prodded from all directions, and sometimes it’s easier to curl up in a little ball to escape the onslaught instead facing the problem. So while I’ve been … Continue reading

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Right On Time

I’m sitting here at my desk waiting for my coffee to kick in…which means I’m half asleep…which means I’m not in work mode yet…plus, I’m in a bit of a contemplative mood. So when I checked my email and found … Continue reading

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I am a queer woman of color

The title of this post says sooooo much. And seeing as this is the first time that I’ve actually typed those words, it means so much, too…(giddy, hand-over-mouth-bouncing-in-chair squeeing…) Coming into my own as woman who loves women has opened … Continue reading

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A Den of Mothers

Blessings, wisdom, and comfort can come from anywhere. I’m learning that more and more on this journey. Here’s an experience I had early last year that really hit that point home. Originally blogged at the amazing Elixher.com, I’m re-posting it … Continue reading

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Change kicking my ass…

Change is good. Sometimes it sucks, but it’s always good. Right? Lately, I have to keep reminding myself that I’m on this road for a reason. Not only for my own sanity but for the well-being of my whole family…because … Continue reading

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