Category Archives: Lesbian married to man

Why I would not wish this situation on my worst enemy

There is nothing cool or trendy about coming out later in life; especially when you’ve already established a life…complete with children a husband and a stable, settled home. It’s one thing to stand on the edge of a precipice and … Continue reading

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Giving In

This weekend I was supposed to do something empowering and freeing. I had planned on attending a weekend of workshops for late-blooming lesbians who were married to men. It’s a yearly event. I wasn’t able to go last year, but … Continue reading

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Trusting and Moving

Life has not been sweet to me lately. I’m getting poked, pinched and prodded from all directions, and sometimes it’s easier to curl up in a little ball to escape the onslaught instead facing the problem. So while I’ve been … Continue reading

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Right On Time

I’m sitting here at my desk waiting for my coffee to kick in…which means I’m half asleep…which means I’m not in work mode yet…plus, I’m in a bit of a contemplative mood. So when I checked my email and found … Continue reading

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I am a queer woman of color

The title of this post says sooooo much. And seeing as this is the first time that I’ve actually typed those words, it means so much, too…(giddy, hand-over-mouth-bouncing-in-chair squeeing…) Coming into my own as woman who loves women has opened … Continue reading

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Change kicking my ass…

Change is good. Sometimes it sucks, but it’s always good. Right? Lately, I have to keep reminding myself that I’m on this road for a reason. Not only for my own sanity but for the well-being of my whole family…because … Continue reading

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Uncle – Randomness #2

I had an uncle who used to say that if the world came to end while he was still living, he wanted to be at the heart of the destruction. When the asteroid slammed into the ocean or the bomb … Continue reading

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Inspired and Informed

The most difficult part about this journey has been the  loneliness. Finding other women to talk to (specifically women in a similar situation) can be hard to damn near impossible,  depending in where you live. It’s not like most of … Continue reading

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Burning Lies

I have issues around honesty. I didn’t always know this. In my mind the difference between a lie and the truth was a gray area that could be manipulated to fit my needs. It just wasn’t a big deal to … Continue reading

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Getting to the Good Part

It’s been almost two years since I told my husband that I was questioning my sexuality. Two years of guilt, anger, and way too many things said out of spite and resentment. Two years of looking into the mirror and … Continue reading

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